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If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream---and not make dreams your master;
If you can think---and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:.
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings---nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And---which is more---you'll be a Man, my son!

          -Rudyard Kipling

big bang



Friends,

There is a place where boy bands still exist. It is called Korea. And it is glorious.

a shout-out to beards

I find that a man growing a beard often loses the enthusiasm he began with, in part because of discouraging opinions from other people. (No Shave November, anyone?) And, yes, lot of my girlfriends dislike beards, but I think often they haven't seen one well-developed and well kept. The beginning stages of a beard can be awkward-looking and itchy (unless you're George Clooney), and I think a lot of people just dislike the change. But a good beard is so attractive. Thus, I've collected a few examples for your affirmation and enjoyment.

But really all this is to say: bearded men, I love you. Keep growin. Just, please, no neck beards.






























(see my Pinterest board for sources)


Also, this.

family videos



My aunt brought over some old Super8 films and I'm so in love with them. Here's a little clip. I didn't add any music. I couldn't think of anything that would fit well, and I kinda like it without.

I love how obviously excited they are to be filmingthere are clips of just random things. And I'm surprised by how much I love watching that, the tree in the backyard or the new car. From now on I might reconsider when I think a picture is dumb. I don't take nearly enough.

april 2012

























So I organize my iTunes in a weird way. First I break up my music by genre, but not genres like "rock," "pop," "rap," etc, but by who the music reminds me of. So the genres are names of my friends. Sash is more popular hip-hop/dance type music, and Sami is this kind of electro space-age bachelor pad music. It doesn't make sense to a lot of other people, but for me it works great. A friend's music taste is a lot more nuanced than a straight genre. There's also a category called "Summer of 2010," which happened to be one of the greatest summers of my life, and I was listening to mellow, folksy-type music at the time. So there you go.

After that my music is organized mostly by the albums I make monthly. I've always made a lot of mixtapes, and I'm terrible at thinking of clever names, so I just started naming them by month. And that's how I came to have so many albums with boring titles like "June 2006". But it's actually kind of nice because I can go back and listen to the songs I loved during specific times in my life.

I also add "album covers" that are mostly just pictures from the months that I made the mixes, or from my collection of family pictures. So I'll be listening to my iPod and look down to see a picture of Sash and I on a road trip to California or my brother coming home from his mission. The April 2012 picture is of my mom when she was my age.

Anyway, I thought I'd share this month's mixtape with you. Enjoy!

April 2012. You can download it here ... I think. I'm new to this whole cloud storage thing.

1. A Little Time — Arborea
2. If She Wants Me — Belle & Sebastian
3. Lovers' Carvings — Bibio
4. Yeah Yeah — Sam Means
5. In b Flat — Beatenberg
6. Towers — Bon Iver
7. Zoner (Demo) — Jesse Boykins III
8. Summer Music — Advance Base
9. Losers — The Belle Brigade
10. Old Friend — Caveman

Also, remember that all the music is for sampling purposes only — please go out and buy the artists' records and support them at their shows!

And I do get a lot of my music for free (legally) on radio stations and artists' websites, so if you have a favorite radio station (94.7 KNRK) or a favorite artist, check their website and you might be able to find some great new music.